The Twilight Zone

Cue the music! I still feel as if I'm having an out of body experience. Maybe it's bc we are in a different country half way around the world, or bc we look nothing like anyone else here, or bc we are still living in our US time zone, or bc of the reason we are here! Regardless, it's crazy. It's all crazy but in the most amazing way!
Today we met all but 3 of our adoptive families -they are scheduled to arrive tomorrow- A lot of times couples who have adopted before skip all the sightseeing so I'm assuming that is the case. Half of the families brought at least one or more of their children. It made me sad at first but as tired as Steve and I were this afternoon, I was glad we came alone. We've talked with my mom and dad and Luke. Luke has called us and sent videos. Will on the other hand...I received a text this morning "hey". Ha! Ok I guess I'll take it! We haven't been gone long enough to really be homesick but I know in a few days I will be ready to go home!
Today we toured Tian'anmen Square and the Forbidden City. We also took a Hutong tour via rickshaw and had lunch at a local family home. Hutong is like an alley. Did I say how bad traffic is here? No one stops or even slows down for pedestrians. We have had some delicious food and have seen some really cool things. Tomorrow will be just as great but my sights are continuously set on Monday! 

                     

Love some of the translations

Like a funnel cake

More bugs on a stick!

Coconut

Noodle shop next to the hotel

Food was delicious

Huh?

Our guides Cecilia and Alice in front of Forbidden City

Tian 'anmen Sqaure

I actually used it today. Got a good quads workout

The kids grew tired of paparazzi. The Chinese don't see many white people

All important entrances have steps. They believe evil spirits are tiny and cannot jump over these to enter

Stepping on the bat will allow you to take luck and happiness back to your house

Hutong tour via rickshaw

More translation funnies

Our lunch at the local family home. Yum

The kitchen/chef/owner of the house

Interesting selection of fruit

I don't think we're in Kansas anymore!

As much as I am writing this for everyone else, my target audience is my daughter and this permanent record she will be able to read when she's interested- so pardon if I ramble on sometimes. Also excuse the typos as I'm writing under extreme jet lag. I'll try to upload the pics in order but I can't make any promises. The 15 hour plane ride will definitely be my least favorite part of this journey, HOWEVER, I felt completely covered in prayer- I did have alternating moments of peace in between my moments of panic. For most of my waking moments (and even some of my "in and out of sleepy" moments) I was either reciting scripture or singing worship songs. I was bummed bc I couldn't get wifi and therefore catch up on my reading through the bible during the flight. Regardless, the flight was uneventful and we made it safely to our hotel and to the breakfast buffet by 6:00 AM. We are 13 hours ahead of everyone back home so it's actually Thursday here! Smog is crazy-just like the pic Dr. Chuck showed several weeks back. It looks foggy but it's pollution. I'd say about 10% of people wear face masks. It may be more but there are so many people and everyone is in a hurry! It made me feel like my home life is on island time as fast as these guys move! One of the reps from our adoption agency (CCAI) picked us up at the airport. After she helped us check in the hotel, we were given the rest of the day to have some free time. We probably should have slept but we were too excited! We actually were able to navigate around via the subway so we saw a lot of the city. That is why it's 5 PM here, which is actually 4 AM there and I feel as if I just worked a night shift at the hospital. Of course we rode all over town looking for a restaurant recommended by someone and it was worth the search (Anthony Bourdain and Eric would be proud)! Anyway, here are some pics from today! BTW, I don't believe there was a moment people weren't staring at us. Not sure if it was our blond hair or our giant feet, either way we noticed it for sure. We asked for assistance with directions a few times. Several people actually kept walking or would shake their head as if to say no speak English. Others were extremely helpful and enjoyed practicing their English on us!

Last pic as a family of four

The scorpions and beetles are still moving

Candied strawberries on a stick

I can not believe we are here! So surreal

Couldn't find Starbucks but McDonalds was just as good

Jasmine and fruit tea 

Thought the boys would like this. Took this pic at a 7/11

Our hotel

GL cafe

It truly is the Real Thing!

Yes! That is the girl's potty

The alley of street vendors goes on forever

A Catholic Church across from our hotel. Loved the tree as well

Alll the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. Psalm 139:16

I love that verse! God can speak to us through anything,right? Yes, I believe, even through a fortune Cooke! At the end of last year, right before we were matched with our baby (ok toddler) Steve received a fortune cookie that stated "you will soon enjoy a trip to Asia" strange one huh? Much different from the usual "friendship will find you if you look for it " kind of thing. Pretty strong prediction, even for a fortune cookie, if you ask me.  A few days later we received "the call" and were told we were going to China to pick up our daughter. A few weeks later when I was cleaning out the house I found a letter I had written to my mom. I remembered the purple stationary with the teddy bear at the top but not the letter's content. I wrote the letter when I was around 11 years old so my parents had not even had my brothers at the time. The letter was about am older girl who lived in an orphanage. All she wanted for her birthday was to be adopted. Well, in walk a couple ages 41 and 42 (Steve and I are not quite that age yet) just Saying- anyway the couple was getting older so they didn't want a newborn, they wanted an older child!
I can't get over that story and how I found it at just the right time. God's timing is perfect even if it doesn't match up with ours! It's still amazing to me that God knew long ago and placed the desire to adopt in my heart long before I even knew it.  He already knows , He's already there!

TRUST AND OBEY

For there's no other way to be happy in Jesus than to TRUST and OBEY! I've listened to a dozen podcasts this week all from Craig Groeschel, on our words, our thoughts. He suggested choosing a word, phrase, and verse to define your year. EASY! Without effort, the word  "trust" came to mind and bc everything in my mind runs to the tune of a song, the first thing that came to mind was the old hymn Trust and Obey.   My verse, probably my favorite,  is Romans 15:13. May the God of hope fill you with all peace and joy as you trust in Him. This part of the adoption process is moving in fast forward and although I'm thankful, I must admit I am a little terrified (if it's possible to be terrified just a little). Some of these thoughts occasionally cross my mind while others sit there. HOWEVER, I trust in a God who is constant. He has been faithful and will continue to be faithful. Groeschel said, " you don't have to understand completely to obey immediately." I am so glad we chose to obey!

What's in a name?

Ok. So since we started this process, Steve has been calling her Ping.  Why? I don't know. However, he felt she needed a name and bc I couldn't bear to give her a tangible identity back then, he gave her the name Ping. Also through this process, others have known her as Joy. I knew we wouldn't actually call her Joy but Le-the Chinese name for Joy. Last summer I think we came to the agreement that we both liked Lola Le. HOWEVER... after seeing her, we knew she wasn't Lola. Tu Qian Ai is her given name-pronounced "two chin eye" and I wanted to keep at least part of it. Steve knew Emma Kate was my Granny's name and was my "girl" name before we even had the boys.  I agonized over her name and spent  much of my prayer time thinking about her name.  Steve called me a week after we saw her and told me "her name is Ai-Le Kate"-pronounced eye lee. I loved it instantly! I spent that weekend still in prayer over it and had total peace about it, even after realizing we were pronouncing Le a little differently than the actual Chinese word. So with all that said and without further ado... Ai-Le Kate Wright

We're having a toddler!

The last day of Christmas break I took Luke and 3 friends to play at kidcity. We stopped to get an Icee on the way home. 11:53 AM we were getting in the car and I could hear my phone ringing. I assumed it was Steve but as I got in the car and looked at my phone I saw Denver,CO and I knew...I frantically corralled the boys and yelled at them to be quiet bc I was taking a very important call. All I know is the car was or at least seemed silent the entire time I was on the phone. I answered and was told they had a file they wanted us to look at and asked if we wanted to see it. Duh! Of course. She proceeded to tell me about this little girl for over 4 minutes and all I heard was a slightly clearer version of Charlie Brown's teacher. I immediately called Steve and told him he had to come home right away!!! 45 minutes later and we open her file. Actually Steve took too long coming home so I had to sneak a peek at her picture! Even Steve was in awe and kept saying she was perfect! I quickly began sending her file to my "team of experts" however for me that was merely a formality. She was already planted in our hearts.  Monday morning our good friend Paul, who was reviewing her file as well as consulting his colleagues, called me. Paul confirmed what Steve and I already knew...she was perfect and she was ours!!!

The Waiting Game

Only it is definitely NOT a game! It has almost been 3 months since our LID. All my hopes were in the fortune cookie I got many months ago assuring me I "will have full contentment my summer's end." School starts in 2 days, summer is officially over and no referral. If that fortune was from God then I was looking to the wrong thing for contentment. Obviously that was the case anyway but seeing how I am the type of person who wants everything to happen yesterday, I know my test is in the wait...trusting in Him...depending on Him...living today...not worrying about when or how or what will come...
Thank you Father :
for being patient with me even in my impatience
for being faithful even when I have doubts
for giving me confidence to trust in you, knowing you are in control